Every method you have tried were never designed to actually help you find the right person.
They were designed to get you into a chat, a meal, a room and leave the rest to chance. 
Once you're in that space, you are entirely on your own, with hope dressed up as a plan. 
The most expensive thing in dating isn't the dinners - it's the years. Most people never figured it out until it's cost them too much. 

Understory was built on a single insight.

Finding the right person is not a matter of luck. It is a matter of expertise.

Every question in the application was written by an experienced relationship therapist, on purpose. Not to collect your preferences, but to surface how you think, how you connect, and what you actually need — the things a checklist never reaches.

She reads every application herself. When she sees a match, she reaches out. Not before.

You decide whether to proceed. If both people say yes, the introduction is made privately. What happens after is between you.